How to Yearn & Expect Things: A Non-Spiritual Guide to Growing up

“Alone, alone. I am alone — I ache … Yet for the first time, despite all the anguish and the reality problems, I’m here. I feel tranquil, whole, ADULT.” ~Susan Sontag “That yearning inside you that seeks for fulfillment — does it still burn?” ~John Geddes Image Credit: M. T ElGassier on Unsplash What do you yearn for?  To yearn… Continue reading How to Yearn & Expect Things: A Non-Spiritual Guide to Growing up

Mindful Resistance: Take Back Your Self-Worth

“We can see that our thoughts are unbidden, impersonal, painful. Out of compassion for ourselves we can feel their danger. “Like rotten garbage,” says the Buddha, “we can put them down.” (Jack Kornfield) photo by Noah Buscher on Unsplash I have a dog that I walk every day, twice a day. He and I are intimately… Continue reading Mindful Resistance: Take Back Your Self-Worth

Be loving & fierce: Finding your compassionate mind

“We begin by using mindfulness to identify the patterns of thought that lead to our suffering. These include thoughts of unworthiness, jealousy and hatred, revenge, anxiety, clinging, and greed. Then out of compassion we change what is in our minds. We transform our thoughts as a loving protection of ourselves and of others.” ~Kornfield, 2008,… Continue reading Be loving & fierce: Finding your compassionate mind